High heel sandals are usually sexy on a woman, but there is a specific type that really turns me on: the retro cork sandal block. If you see a girl struggling down the sidewalk with a pair of these on, there is a good chance she is white, relatively skinny, and carrier of a full lower-back tattoo. There is also a good chance she is amazing in bed. You should pursue her aggressively because some other guy is going to be hitting it before the sun comes up the next day.

I think my love for these shoes may be a bit subjective because a girl I used to date - and actually like - wore these during the summer.

One of the tests I do when talking to a girl in a club is completely shutup about 3-5 minutes into our conversation. I want to see if she’s capable of keeping it going on her own because experience tells me that dates with girls who can’t are usually boring.

So I’m talking to a girl, telling her how I’m a cool guy since I shower daily, and then suddenly I go silent. I just stare at her, like a kitty cat but a lot tougher. Half of the girls will go silent themselves and gradually turn towards their friends. They stand around and give you the chance to start it up again for a minute or two, but will give up on you if you don’t. They will definitely be receptive if you resume conversation, but why should you? The object of the test is to screen out these girls.

The other half start asking you questions. I swear to god they must get all their questions from a lame web site because it’s the same shit all the time: “Where do you live?”, “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”, and of course the “Do you come here often?” The other night a girl asked me if I was a United States citizen. :huh:

The second half get points for effort so I help them out and get it going again, but seriously, what’s with the closed-ended questions? The first thing a pimp learns is to ask OPEN-ENDED questions. It’s really not a hard concept, even asking “What is your favorite kind of music?” will go much farther then asking me if I’m a naturalized citizen or not. About 2% of the time you will get a winner on your hands, a girl who can hold a conversation, take it in interesting directions, and stimulate you at the same time (i.e. give you an erection). Unfortunately these girls are pretty rare.

People will generally think that girls are awesome at conversation because they are able to talk so much. But this is only with people they know, not with strangers. A real test of your conversational skills is being able to connect with someone who has a different background you have. I don’t go to a yuppie club and talk about European culture, I talk about my ambition and I how I paid full price for my New Balance sneakers.

Stay far far away from any girl who mentions “ambition” as a quality she wants in men. She just wants to make sure you are making a future commitment to being materialistic like her.

Ambition does not get on her guy laundry list until about age 25, when she thinks she’s done letting guys bang her for free.

What’s with women going crazy about reaching career success and gaining material possessions? I know why guys are doing it - for women - but I’m not quite sure why women are doing it.

I got a little tip for the four girls who read this page: if a guy says he likes a BMW for the engineering and that McMansion for the space, he’s lying to you - or to himself. It’s all for the status to impress you. Guys are generally low maintenance and don’t need a lot to get by. If a guy could fuck all the supermodels in the world by living in a refrigerator cardboard box, he would. Who are YOU trying to impress? Do you really need that much money to buy more useless crap?

The biggest mistake that women continue to make are thinking that guys hold them to the same standard that they hold men. We really don’t care about what kind of job you have or how big your bank account us. My future wife can work at CVS for all I care, just as long as she’s good in bed and can clean the house well.

I noticed something interesting with nerd/geek girls who are only sorta cute (6/10 on the rating scale): they get as much attention as the model 9’s and 10’s.

Nerd girls are on a different social level than hot girls. They probably work at a science or computer company instead of a nightclub or bikini car wash. At their job they are surrounded by nerd guys who have absolutely no capability or skill to land anything above a 7 without buying her a new BMW. But these guys are realists, so their dreams at night consist of marrying the cute nerd girl like the mediocre looking Cat Schwartz from TechTV instead of say a Penelope Cruz.

When they encounter a Cat Schwartz-like girl at work, they go absolutely crazy by showering her with attention, favors, and offerings for lunch. It doesn’t matter that her personality is boring; all that matters is she fit the nerd guys fantasy of a woman he could possibly land. Sure the nerd girl doesn’t have many hot studs chasing her, but she doesn’t care because she has an endless supply of rather successful and smart guys at her disposal. She is experiencing what its like to be this girl.

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