I doubted my decision to visit Spain after I booked the flight. While a seemingly great country, how unique can my experience be in one of the most touristy countries in the world? I’ll visit some cathedrals, walk down ancient cobblestone streets, and party in random, overpriced clubs. I set my expectations so low that success was all but guaranteed.
I was reading the latest issue of Budget Traveler while waiting at the terminal in Dulles airport. I could swear this girl was giving me a look. She wore green Converse shoes with puffy white pants and a tight shirt. Her hair was long, wavy and wild, and she was doing Sudoku with thick, nerd glasses perched on her nose. Definitely young and definitely not American.
“Let me guess, you’re from France,” I said.
“No. I’m from Spain.”
“Even better!”
She told me she’s 18 and about to start her freshman year at a college in Barcelona.
I say a lot of big words about wanting a young girl. I remember it starting as a joke but turning serious in the past year after my experiences drove me to the conclusion that women over 25 are generally not worth the trouble. But young American girls can often be more hassle. So what is the answer? Or rather, where is it? I’m not completely sure, but young, foreign girls who haven’t adopted our culture are very different from their American counterparts.
Clara was friendly but not too friendly, warm but not too warm. If she got off the plane before me or cleared through customs first she would wait for me. A girl who is not too focused playing the game and worrying if she is showing too much interest is, after all, what I want - a girl who lies in the optimal middle-ground between needy and coquette.
She has had just as many interesting life experiences as me, and had no problem conversing with someone almost ten years her senior. Her rich life experience showed in her lively personality. Her realistic view of the world displayed her knowledge. And her body language showed that she is comfortable being around an older man.
Not until an American girl hits the age of 24 or 25 does she start becoming sensual. Before that age she has very little clue how to act around a man, how to hook him, and how to arouse him. She knows how to play phone games, but she doesn’t know how to use personality and language in a game of seduction where real emotions become involved. And no wonder she needs advice on to get men to call her back. By the time she “gets it,” she has been used and abused too many times by guys such as myself to go into new relationships with honesty and openness. The fear of getting hurt simply ensures its occurrence.
I wanted Clara to join me in Barcelona. Scenes of movies popped in my head, where a lone traveler finds his beautiful soul mate and has to hold back manly tears when it’s time to say goodbye. This came after visions of hours of rough, steamy sex with this tanned, curvy Spaniard.
Or I could just exchange email addresses with her.
Clara would be the first of many girls where cruel logistics would stop things just short of where they could have gone. And she would be the only Spanish girl I’d get to know during the entire trip.
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She was 18, dude. You can justify it with all sorts of “but she’s FOREIGN!”, still…that’s just creepy. You’ve graduated to old perv status. Congrats.
I always cosnidered “old perv status” to be a positive personal quality to be cultivated and induldged.
Now come on, this was a very introspective post into ole DCB here. Very interesting indeed.
Yeah DCB dating hot looking 18 yr olds is wrong….You should stop…..
Dam….so are we gonna get a flow chart on the difference between American and Spanish women?????
is there gonna be a spanish ass contest? i’d bet there wasn’t a saggy, droopy, speckled, or flat apple in the bunch.
did you squeeze any basque ass?
In general, for millennia and across all cultures, there has been no stigma or social bias against males dating and marrying females 10 or more years younger, EXCEPT the stigma and bias which has developed in the USA in the 20th-21st century. It’s been demonstrated by biologists that human males have a hard-wired preference for younger females, but if you survey the average modern young American woman, there’s an overwhelming preference for someone not more than 5 years older. In fact, there’s an increasing trend of American women seeking out younger guys (contrary to biological dictates — more of a social phenomenon of “empowerment”). I noticed this phenomenon when I lived in the DC area.
So what do I do? Luckily, work takes me overseas very frequently. In July-August, I was in Hungary, Ukraine, Slovakia, Switzerland, Italy, and London (beautiful girls in all those places, but it was the LONDON girls who surprised me most by their beauty, femininity, senses of humor, and approachability. No game playing and phoniness noted during my late night clubbing stops…)
Now I’m sitting in Atlanta Hartsfield waiting on a flight to Frankfurt — then back to Switz and Italy… In the winter, I’m planning a trip to Croatia. The women there are supposed to be amazing!
Sorry about all the bragging, I have friends who travel MUCH mroe than me, and I’ve excoriated them for sending bragging emails. So now it’s my turn to be on the jet set circuit, and I’m having fun and in a rush so I’ve had to abbreviate this all with a few paragraphs.
But DCB, bravo to you for travelling and reporting to us about it — let’s hear more, please! To me, you’re one of the best blogs around… Keep it up!
oooh….now that you are back, you need to see one of my favorite movies: “Sex and Lucia”. it’s a must-see. it will do wonders for your younger woman fetish…and beyond…
18 year old girls are a total waste of time. Too immature, too inexperienced, probably still live with parents. 19 year olds are far better, and they usually have a convincing fake by then so you can take them to places that aren’t total dives. Points off for not arranging entrance to the Mile High Club, although I’ve never pulled it off either.
Guns N’ Rosenthal says: You know what they say about ?grass on the field?
Yeah… “Shave that shit!”
personally, I like girls who are 22 or older. younger than that? too immature, and the generatorial gap becomes an issue that the girl is not willing to overcome (as I am, though).
This sounds like a male version of a romance novel. may I ask, what is there after a woman has attracted you with her sensuality and confident coquettishness? You date her…and realize that she’s just like all the other girls. The initial qualities that attracted you to her fade away. Sad, right?
I lived in southern Spain for two yrs and the Spainish people I worked with said it was completely normal to find a 25yo with a 15yo or something of the like. I was thinking maybe it was a southern thing like we have in the US. Very liberal over there: porn on the network channels every night after midnight and “clubs” every few blocks filled with girls from South America and Russia. And Spainish girls are so much hotter too.
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